Swingers Contacts Spain

Frequently asked questions about swingers photo profiles.

1. Why isn't my ad up yet?

Your ad (profile) is approved before becoming visible to others. This takes up to a maximum of 24 hours but is usually no more than 2 hours.

2. I'm new to swinging, how do I get into the scene?

The best way to get into the scene is to answer an ad or post your own. That's what this site is all about! As this question often comes from single males let me offer some direct advice to that group - try answering ads first in the Couples for males section - always be polite - send full photographs, cock shots may not get you as many responses. If at first you don't succeed - try, try again. If someone says they are going to the Bermuda triangle for an extended holiday take the hint and move on to the next ad.

3. I'll be in Town on x night. How do I get a really beautiful girl?

I cannot guarantee action to anyone - You have four options here:

1. use some foresight and planning and answer some ads a few weeks before your trip to arrange a meeting
2. visit a swing club during your visit
3. put a posting on the forum - you may get lucky
4. call an escort

If anyone has additional ideas/options on this theme let me know.

4. How does one get started as an escort?

Other than placing the ads I have little contact with escorts. I encourage you to contact them directly. Remember these are professionals whose time and expertise are valuable and treat them accordingly.

5. I will be in the City on x day. Please send me details of clubs/parties.

All the information I have on house parties and commercial clubs can be found by following the clubs or parties links to the left of the page. If you have details about clubs or parties in your area please send them to me and I will add them to the site.

6. Please introduce me to Jane/Sue/Lynn etc.

I do not do personal introductions except between people I know, and who I think may get on well together.

7. I have had no responses to my ad - or no one responds to my emails.

This site is a free resource for swingers. I have no means by which to "make" people respond to ads or to mails sent in response to an ad.

Men please be aware - couples and ladies who advertise for men get so many responses it is impossible for them to respond to all of them - To try and understand the problem I have been talking to a few of the new advertisers. They have told me that the response rate has been in excess of 100 emails a week. This means that to read the responses alone takes a very long time.
Don't respond to ads where you do not fit the criteria of the advertiser. You are wasting their time and your own.

8. Is my email link working?.

Yes. I cannot force people to reply, but your mail has reached them, and if they have tried to respond their mail will be in one of your in boxes inside your profile.

9. Can you tell me where to find:

a turkish/swedish/dominant escort? - check the ad listings, you will find some escorts listed. I do not have time to browse the internet very often, when I do, I am not looking for escorts.
a discreet hotel in London/Paris where I can take my girlfriend? - use a search engine and look for hotels+cityname.

10. My wife/husband is not keen on the idea of swinging, how can I persuade her/him?

You cannot without risking your marriage, talk about it, but don't push it. If it is not something you both want to do, don't do it - it will end in tears.

11. What is acceptable photo content?

It is easier to say what is not acceptable: this is my list, not a legal requirement:

No Children to be involved (a person under the legal age of consent) in any sex act or picture. (If I think a person looks under age I will ask for picture id (a passport) as proof of age/identity)
No animals to be involved.
No violence - beyond mild bondage/spanking.
No mention of Rape or sex under duress

I will always reserve the right to pull any ad that I do not think fits in with the tone of the site.

12. What do I do at a swinging party?

Have a look at the information on the "Etiquette" page listed on menu to the left of the page.

13. can I buy you a beer?

Yes please - mine's a pint of Stella ;)).


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